If you know Amy, you know she has wonderful facial expressions. There is a picture of her as a baby, held against me in a sling, when she looks extremely opinionated. Little did we know how much her full self was shining through at that moment. When she got home from school on Friday I… Read more »
Sarah Rise Weekly Updates
February 8: Memorial Service
We caught the red-eye drive Thursday evening…Normally people refer to red-eye flights, but I had never heard of a red-eye drive until Sarah coined the phrase as we drove in the dark to Delaware on Thursday. We arrived at 10pm, so not quite the classic red-eye but certainly past Sarah’s normal tuck-in time. The late… Read more »
February 1: Snowmageddon and Math Compassion
The last time Pittsburgh experienced a snowmageddon, Sarah was 3. She is 19 now, so perhaps I can forgive the city for not being able to handle a foot of snow. It is a very hilly city and almost half of the plows broke after their first big night of work. It was also extremely… Read more »
January 25: Bears, Bards, and Birthdays
Brace yourself. Or, rather, brace your bear. Higgy Bears has been a hugely important part of Amy’s scoliosis journey, so when there was a fundraiser to get bears that we could assemble and donate to our local hospital, we jumped at the chance. A week ago, Amy, Sarah, and I spread bears, braces, and letters… Read more »
January 18: Heartbreak
Sometimes the thing you feared would be so emotionally painful that you could not possibly survive it happens and you are surprised to find yourself still alive and functioning. Last Sunday evening, my dad died. In theory death is something that we all go through, but there was supposed to be a little asterisk of… Read more »
January 11: Double the Heartache
When I was ten and my parents told me they were getting a divorce, the first thing I said, when I emerged from my tears of grief, was that I would need two hair brushes. I split my time evenly between my two homes and I had two of just about everything, including two sets… Read more »
January 4: Peppa, Donald, and Goose-Ball
Our family Christmas visits had the usual hugs, planned fun, and unexpected hilarity. The planned fun was that I ordered Peppa Pig themed shirts for Granddad and company in accordance to who people are or what they like. Sarah’s shirt has Peppa with musical notes and Amy’s has Peppa making lots of different faces. Carl’s… Read more »
December 28: Turtles, Cats, Rays, and Mosquitoes
Amy and I heard chanting coming from the bedroom where we thought Sarah was already asleep. It took some time to parse the words because they seemed so inconceivable. Sarah was chanting, along with a family in a YouTube video, “Blood draw! Blood draw! Blood draw!” Yup, our little lover of crying babies and hospitals… Read more »
December 21: Sunday
A week ago Amy and I attended a performance of A Winter’s Tale on a night that merited such a label. The day had been snowy, allowing Carl and Amy to have fun sledding while Sarah and I had a cozy nap. Monday morning was then so cold that the girls each had a two-hour… Read more »
December 14: Surprise
Hi, I’m Mice Door. Do you have a last name? My last name is Door. D-O-O-R. The above lines are what Sarah said as I drove her to her weekend retreat, catching me by delighted surprise as she always does. The concept of surprise has been on my mind this week after a conversation with… Read more »


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